The Blame Game

I've seen it happen, read about it, heard about it, and honestly, I've done it myself at times. It’s that tendency to sin and then shift the blame onto someone else to feel better about ourselves. We might blame our heartbreak, sadness, or tough circumstances on someone else’s actions, but really, it’s our choice to sin that causes our pain.

I’m using ‘she’ here because, believe me, I’ve been there—‘she’ did this, ‘he’ did that, and, let’s face it, sometimes even the houseplants get blamed. We’ve all had our moments! The story of blame isn’t new; it started way back in the Garden of Eden. Eve blamed Satan, Adam blamed Eve (and even tried to pin it on God!), and here we are still passing around the blame baton like it’s an Olympic sport.

But the Bible makes it clear: right is right and wrong is wrong, no matter who’s involved or how creative we are at finger-pointing. In the end, we’re the ones who choose to sin—no one twists our arm. God’s hoping we catch on and take responsibility for our own actions (instead of blaming the dog for eating our homework).

Here's the simple truth: blaming others doesn’t get us anywhere. It’s easy to think someone else is responsible for our pain, but that’s just an illusion. Those choices are ours alone, and we have to face the consequences.

Even if blaming feels temporarily good, our sins will catch up with us in the end. Galatians 6:7-8 reminds us: “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life."

So, when we try to elevate ourselves by blaming others, we’re just dodging responsibility. Remember, we’re not responsible for other people’s wild choices—just our own. If your heart aches because you made a questionable decision—like infidelity—realize and repent from your mistakes. Learn from this and try to grow; it’s never too late to make things right. If your passion for gossip comes back to bite you, don’t sulk when drama erupts. And if a workplace oopsie gets you fired, channel your inner student: learn the lesson, don’t blame your office buddy!

Don't point fingers at others or at God. Instead, forgive, move forward, and rest in the only one who truly restores and guides us—God. As Psalm 18:30 says, "As for God, his way is perfect: The Lord’s word is flawless; he shields all who take refuge in him."

It’s time to stop the blame game and accept responsibility. Follow God's plan for your life, obey Him, and when you stumble, confess and turn around. Luke 11:28 reminds us: “…blessed are those who hear God's word and obey it."